I was reminded yesterday how important it is not to make gender assumptions, especially with children. A sweet 8 year old girl came in for her first day at Summer Care at You're Invited and my immediate response to her was "oh we have several girls your age to play with." As I listened to her talk and watched her body language I thought that perhaps she wouldn't want to play just with girls and I quickly added, "yes, lots of girls or boys your age to play with." (trying to recover from my lack of sensitivity) Later in the day I watched this girl compete in an intense, competitive tetherball match with a boy a few years older and saw other boys lined up to play the winner. They were all having a great time. I reminded myself not to make assumptions about people based on their gender, that we can easily make children feel bad, sorry, guilty, confused, etc about their natural predilections when we decide what they will like based on our assumptions and stereotypes.
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Showing posts with label learn by play. Show all posts
Showing posts with label learn by play. Show all posts
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
Wednesday, May 8, 2013
Lets take a Poll!
Thanks to Miss Taylor for being brave enough to catch this huge cricket and put it in this container for the children to investigate.


A few of the older children went around asking every single child and adult if we "should let the cricket go free to find his family or keep it in the box"
The decision was unanimous and we decided to let the cricket "be free and find his family"
This wasn't a planned activity but when centers are flexible and children are given freedom to move around the environment and choose their own learning with adults ready to engage and facilitate this type fun, enriching opportunity happens!
Thursday, March 28, 2013
Moments Under the Tree

At You're Invited we are so fortunate to have several trees and I believe ours are being used to to fullest of God's intentions for providing them to us. Some of these trees are huge and provide the best natural shade and we are blessed to have a few that offer even more gifts. Our trees that have low, strong branches provide endless opportunities for our children. Low branches provide a feeling of being enclosed and give children a place that feels like their own little shelter. Swings are possible when branches are low and of course the amazing, powerful feat of being able to climb something "hugemungus" like a tree. As much as these trees offer, they can not be fully utilized without offering children the time to use them to their fullest potential.
It is so important that children are given long amounts of time with the freedom to make their own choices in their play. It easy to be convinced of the fallacy that children need to constantly be presented with curriculum and provided with information constantly. The intention behind these overly structured environments is to "get them ready" but what happens are children that can be stressed, overwhelmed and unable to think on their own. They become dependent on outside resources to be stimulated and they don't develop the inner resources that can equip them for their future.
Children need to be given time and spaces that are rich for building language and friendships, working out drama and creating pretend dramas, they need the time and space to be free, to think without interruption, to dream and to relax.
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Children’s play and play-based learning should be the fundamental philosophy behind early learning environments...
Whether by necessity or choice, the majority of parents work and many
depend upon formal, organized out‐of‐home care.
Offering quality child care that supports the child’s natural desire to
play and provide an environment that is intentional about creating
opportunities for learning through play helps create a common good
society. Quality early care and
education programs that follow a pedagogy of play support a child’s optimal
development and readiness for success in school. Longitudinal research
(e.g.
Chicago Child‐Parent Centers, High/Scope Perry Preschool and Abecedarian
Projects) shows that children who attend high‐quality preschool programs are
less likely to be placed in special education; less likely to be held back a
grade; and more likely to graduate from high school and attend college.
A
play-based child care program, like the one You’re Invited provides, is one
that allows children to learn at their own individual pace through the natural
process of play. The profound benefits
of this type of learning environment are losing ground to adult-directed, instruction
based philosophies. Important life-long
skills such as problem solving, emotional development,
divergent thinking, analytical skills, etc are being put to the side for
worksheets, drills, table work and other developmentally inappropriate teaching
styles.
Problem solving, for
instance, involves an element of risk. If we want children to learn to solve
problems we must create safe environments in which they feel confident taking
risks, making mistakes, learning from them, and trying again (Fordham &
Anderson, 1992). In a play-based curriculum, each day provides opportunities to
learn about reading, writing, and math through real, meaningful situations. For
instance, children set the table for snack so each child has one napkin, one
straw, and one box of milk. Children string beads to match the pattern on a
card or wait their turn because there is room for only four children at the art
table. Through these meaningful experiences children begin to understand
number, quantity, size, and other mathematical concepts.
It is clear the expectations
of our society are changing and our culture is becoming increasing focused on
specific functional skills such as arithmetic and pre-literacy as the objective
of pre-kindergarten learning environments.
We feel children’s play and play-based learning should be the
fundamental philosophy behind early learning environments and will continue to
offer an environment that is proven to provide the most solid foundation for
acquiring these functional skills when developmentally appropriate.
Fordham, A.E. & Anderson, W.W. (1992). Play,
risk-taking, and the emergence of literacy. In Play's place in public
education for young children, edited by V.J. Dimidjian, 105-114.
Washington, DC: National Education Association.
Friday, September 23, 2011
Monster Week!!
Slime!
Math, science, sensory, fine motor, cause & effect, language development - all in one great Monster theme activity!
We combined 12 teaspoons borax with 2 1/4 cup warm water in one bowl and 2 1/2 cups glue with 3/4 cup warm water and green koolaid or food coloring in another bowl. We slowly pour the borax mixture into the glue mixture and excitedly watched the mixture form while one of the friends stirred!
the language used was so fun to hear!
"its lumpy now"
"oooh slippery"
"soft like gum"
"greasy"
"its slimy"
"Im gonna make a slime cake"
"its slippery and hard"
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Friday, July 29, 2011
Beach Day at School!
We ended two weeks of Ocean themed activities (which included a field trip to a local aquarium with a Beach Day! Here are a few of the activities we enjoyed -
Sorting Sea Shells (recycled plastic tray from a candy box)
Parachute play during together time( most schools call circle time)with blow up ocean animal balls and beach balls from $ store
Cant have a beach day without LIMBO! Kids with hoses Woo hoo! We turned our sand box into a mini-beach
Ocean Art!
Shaving cream, blue paint & glue makes a great texture for the ocean "water"
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Babies playing and learning - Outdoors!!!
Thursday, October 21, 2010
October Orange!!!!!
Although we dont celebrate holidays at You're Invited Children's Center we do use the colors and some symbols of the seasons to create learn by play activities. These are some of the Orange/Pumpkin activities we did this week!
Counting and sorting with candy pumpkins. We used pumpkin scoops for fine motor development.

Pumpkin cookie cutters with orange paint mixed with glue and orange colored salt in shakers.


All orange collage
Outside we did
pumpkin sponge painting w/ green paint and yard for making a pumpkin patch
Juicing oranges with hand juicers. This was great for large muscles and the juice was super yummy!
Another outdoor activity - Pounding golf tees into pumpkins with small mallots


Easel painting - red & yellow make orange :)



Outside we painted on small, medium & big
pumpkins with water color tablets.

Salt colored with orange water color in cookie sheet with sticks and other tools!
Potato Head peices with real oranges
Potato Head peices with real oranges


Outside we did


Another outdoor activity - Pounding golf tees into pumpkins with small mallots


Easel painting - red & yellow make orange :)
Monday, September 20, 2010
Ribbon, Yarn and Scissors!
At You're Invited Children's Center we put out baskets of spools of ribbon and yarn and few pairs of scissors then watched to see what happened!
The friends spent all morning unrolling, rolling, cutting, wrapping, measuring, hiding, dramatic playing, matching and more!!
Who has the longest ribbon?

Friday, August 6, 2010
Ocean Snack!


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